Therapy for Survivors of Trafficking in Madison, WI
For women whose experiences are harder to name and harder to find help with.
You may not call yourself a survivor. You may not call what happened trafficking. You may have spent years thinking of it as a relationship, a job, a situation you got into and could not get out of, a part of your life you do not talk about. You may still be working out what to call it. You do not have to know what to call it to start. You do not have to disclose anything in order to be seen. The first conversation is just a conversation.
You don't have to tell the whole story. You don't have to start at the beginning.
It does not always look like the version in the news.
You may have had moments of choice, or what felt like choice. You may have stayed when you could have gone, or believed you could not have gone, or did not know going was something you were allowed to do.
The aftermath does not always announce itself either. You may be functional. You may have a job and an apartment and friends who do not know. You may be doing well by every visible measure.
What you went through may not match the public picture of trafficking.
There may not have been a kidnapping or a border. The person involved may have been someone you knew, someone you trusted, someone you loved.
And underneath, there is something running that you have not been able to name to anyone, and that you are not sure how to name to yourself.
You are not too far gone to begin. You are not the only one who has carried something this complicated quietly for this long. There is a way to begin without telling everyone everything.
What Therapy With Me Looks Like
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You define your experience
I work specifically with survivors of trafficking and the kinds of layered, coercive experiences that often do not have a clean name. You do not have to identify as a survivor or a victim to work with me. You do not have to use any specific language about what happened. We work at whatever level of disclosure feels safe to you.
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We build safety before the story
I will not press you for details that your nervous system is not ready to bring forward. I will not require you to tell me the timeline before we begin. I have worked with enough women in this space to know that the most important thing in the early sessions is not the story. It is the relationship between us, and the relationship between you and your own nervous system.
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We work with what your body is carrying
I use EMDR therapy, which can do meaningful trauma processing without requiring you to retell what happened. The work focuses on what your body is still carrying, what is still running in the background of your life, and what needs to update before you can feel like you are actually present in your own days.
When you’re ready for support, I’m hereHow EMDR Therapy Helps Survivors of Trafficking
Trafficking and coercion create a particular kind of imprint. Your body learned to read other people’s needs ahead of your own. It learned to suppress its own signals because acting on them was not safe. It learned to comply, to perform, to make yourself small, to disappear. These were not weaknesses. They were skills, and they kept you alive. They are also still running. EMDR can help your nervous system begin to update what it learned in those circumstances. The part of you that has been on alert for years can finally start to rest. Your sense of yourself starts to come back online. The version of you that was put away starts to return. EMDR helps your body learn that the conditions that required you to disappear are over.
You are not who you had to become to survive. What people often want to know
Frequently Asked Questions About Therapy for Survivors of Trafficking in Madison, WI
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No. Therapy with me does not require disclosure of details to begin. We work at whatever level of detail feels right, and that level can change over time. Some of my clients begin without naming what happened at all, and the work still proceeds. EMDR is designed to do trauma processing without a verbal retelling.
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Many survivors are, especially in cases where the situation involved family, intimate relationships, or ongoing economic ties. We do not require you to break contact in order to do the work. We work with the actual circumstances of your life, and we focus first on safety planning if you are still in or near the situation.
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If you are involved in a legal case, civil suit, or asylum process related to what happened, the way we discuss specifics in therapy can interact with the legal piece. I am familiar with these dynamics. We work in a way that supports your healing without compromising your case. If your attorney has specific concerns about how therapy intersects with the legal process, I am happy to coordinate with them.
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Many of my clients are uncertain about how to categorize what they experienced. Trafficking is legally defined in specific ways, but the lived experience often includes situations that do not fit neatly into the legal definition. The work does not require you to label your experience before we begin. We work with the impact, and the language can come later if it comes at all.
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Therapy with me is confidential. I am not a mandated reporter to immigration authorities. The protections of clinical confidentiality apply regardless of immigration status. If you have specific concerns about how therapy interacts with your situation, we can discuss them on the discovery call before you commit to anything.
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That makes sense. Reaching out can feel like more than you have in you right now. The fifteen-minute call is structured to be low-pressure for exactly this reason. There is no requirement to share specifics on the call. There is no commitment to begin therapy after it. It is a conversation, and you can stop the conversation at any point.
Still have questions? Other areas where this work overlapsMany of the women I work with are carrying more than one of these.
Trauma rarely arrives in tidy categories. If something on this page resonates but does not quite fit, one of these other doors may be closer to your experience.
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Therapy for Adult Survivors of Childhood Abuse
Many of my clients in this work are also carrying experiences from childhood that made the later harm possible. If what happened to you began long before the trafficking did, this is where that earlier part of your story can be met.
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Therapy After Sexual Assault
Most trafficking experiences include sexual assault, and the impact of that often needs its own room. If you find yourself working through pieces of what happened that fit more cleanly under the language of assault than under the language of trafficking, this work meets that.
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Therapy After Domestic Violence
When the person controlling the situation was also a partner, a relationship, or someone you loved, the experience often sits in the overlap between trafficking and intimate partner violence. The work can hold both.
If any of this sounds like the kind of work you have been looking for, I would be glad to talk
A free fifteen-minute call. No paperwork. No pressure. No requirement to explain anything before we even speak. Just a real conversation about what is going on and whether this feels like the right fit.